Sunday, July 27, 2008

Introducing our newest edition: Anna Li

We meet Anna Li at the Notary around 9:30 this morning. Our beautiful girl walked in crying and our hearts just ached for her. After signing all the paperwork, we got a chance to sit down and talk to her and calm her fears. We got our picture made with the orphanage director (on the left) and Rebecca from Christian Action (on the right). Our little girl just sobbed with grief over leaving all of her friends and family at the orphanage. She felt much better after we reassured her that she can and will keep in touch with all of her friends and family. She can write, email, and even call them. After that, she perked up and felt a little better.
I can not thank Papa Denny and Mama Carol enough for paying the way for Bethany to come. It was a huge life saver. Anna Li was so happy she was there.
As we were leaving Anna Li grabbed my arm then held my hand. It was for only a brief second but I literally wanted to get down on my knees and thank the Lord!! As we walked down the steps she grabbed Bethany's hand and didn't let go until we got back to the hotel. They were swinging arms and twirling each other.
Anna Li is already playing the big sister role. She wants to constantly fix Bethany's hair and her glasses.
They have been playing good together and Anna Li seems to be enjoying herself. She just came and put her arm around me and started talking. I don't know if she understands that I don't know Chinese. She keeps looking at me wanting an answer. This is going to be a long road. She is not ready to learn English. We tried to get her to say a few words but it embarrassed her. We will just work on the latter. In the mean time, Chad's Mandarin is getting good!!
She is interacting well with all of us. She is not ready to call us mama or baba. She still refers to her foster family as her family and that is ok. It takes time. We will be meeting her foster father tonight and she is very excited. We have a gift for her to give him. We are really pleased with the way things are going. Anna Li is a sweet girl and she behaves very well. She has very good manners. We couldn't be happier!!

12 comments:

Mom 2 Four said...

Congratulations, we are so very happy for you and your family. Your daughters look very happy together. See you soon in Guangzhou. Christe

The Smith's said...

Kristy,

I am so glad that things are going well. God is good! It sounds like Anna feels like she is a part of the family. The pictures of the two girls together are priceless. I hate that you don't have anywhere to get Americanized food where you are at. You will ge good once you get to Guangzhou!

Keep up the updates!

Love

Becky Smith

Carol said...

Hello, precious child. We are so happy that you have become a part of our family. You are so beautiful even when you are sad, but I pray that every day your smile becomes brighter. We all love you very much.

Papa Denny and Mama Carol

Russ and Lisa W. said...

I am sitting here with BIG OLE tears in my eyes!! I am so Happy that Anna Li is now with you! Understanding each other will come in time. Looking forward to reading more! Can't wait for you all to get home!!!

Love, Lisa!

Starla said...

IU'll be praying that AnnaLi will open up, that her grieving will open her heart up to having her family, that she and Bethany will get along great, and that she will begin to trust you. The English will come in time....maybe sooner than you think. I see in your pictures that she was drawing on something, and interacting with Bethany....that is huge! We didn't see anything like that for the first 2 weeks. Starla

Barley Adoption said...

Congratulations, I am glad you finally have your daughter. The girls look happy to have each other.
Love,
Diane

Scott said...

Anna Li is beautiful! We hope you all had a great first day together. We can't wait to meet Anna Li in a few days. Enjoy your time there and we will see you soon!

Jean, Scott, Nate, Drew, & Lilymei

Buffi Young said...

Wow...she is precious. My heart aches for her too! Even though I know she has a beautiful life ahead of her, I KNOW it is SO hard to leave the familiar! Praise God for Bethany. We felt the same way about having Sophie. God knows!! We look forward to more and more posts. We're praying!
Blessings,
buffi

Hope for Lucy said...

Kristy!
She is so beautiful and Bethany you are doing an awesome job! These pictures are just precious. Each day will get better and better. God is so GOOD!

I cant wait for more updates and LOTS of pictures. We love you guys!
Connie
Green Party of 5ive

Denna said...

Congratulations. She is very pretty. I love the picture of the girls holding hands. They will be the best of friends.

Joey Orr said...

YEAH! We are so excited for you all. It is amazing to see you all together, as a family. We can't wait to meet Anna Li. In the meantime, we will be praying you all home.

Joey and Richard Orr

Sonya said...

TEARS!!!! I am so happy for you! Yet my heart breats for Anna Li at the same time. We all know that this is where God had planned for her since the begining of time but saying bye to friends and foster parents is not easy!
LOVE the sister pics! They are so sweet together!

PRAYING!!!